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the insanity of "to do" lists

My freshman year of college I found myself mortified one Tuesday night to discover that in addition to a major test the next day (which I had been studying for), I also had three projects due the next day, none of which I had started. My upperclassmen friend who was in two of those classes (and had thankfully stopped by my room to see how they were going), recommended that I purchase a day planner and spend the following afternoon cataloguing all the project and paper due dates. I wisely took her advice, and that was the last time a project slipped up on my unawares. (NOTE: I did NOT say that was the last time I was up all night finishing projects...just that I was no longer ignorant of them).
But a new problem arose. Between class, work, and yearbook staff, my free time was very limited. And let's face it, some homework and reading assignments, even in college, are just plain dull. So I quickly learned to ignore items on my "to do" list that were not due that week (except for research papers). yes, that gush of wind you're hearing is my dear "get-it-done-now" Bobby gasping in absolute horror as he reads this.
Now that I'm out of college, I find another problem with my little lists...where did I put them? They tend to disappear even faster than my car keys!
Life without organization (aka - to do lists) isn't fun. It creates a lot of problems. And yet there's something in me that just rebels at a list of things that must be done that day. I mean, the grocery store can wait one more day and I can mop the floor instead, right? They both need doing. And perhaps if I do the one I like first, it'll get done faster and then I'll have time for the other and I'll get TWO things done today! and this is where Bobby's two eyebrows become one and he tilts his head trying to decide if I've reached the ultimate level of insanity
So I wonder, how many other idealistic dreamers are out there? Do you make to do lists? And if so, do you follow them?

Comments

Jennifer said…
I don't really make lists, but I have in my head what needs to get done. I am definately a planner though and absolutely hate to put things off!
Keri said…
I LOVE lists. Just call me a little OCD. There is just something so fulfilling in marking through that last item on the list....... just in time to start a new one!
Unknown said…
I'm a list maniac! I even had a list for my labor with Trey, but THAT time.... I didn't follow it. :)
Lydia said…
I have a spiral notebook by the phone that I write my "lists" in. Every morning I write EVERY SINGLE THING I need to do down. Even though there is no way I would skip making beds or homeschooling, I still write them down 'cause it feels good to check SOMETHING off my list:) Other stuff...well, I just pick whatever my priority is that day. If I'm craving cake, I bake rather than clean. If company's coming, then I clean. Honestly, half the stuff on my to-do-lists never get done.

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